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  • 日志数: 5
  • 建立时间: 2007-12-04
  • 更新时间: 2007-12-08

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  • 宝宝的吃饭问题

    2007-12-08

    宝宝的吃饭问题一直很让我头疼。一顿饭要吃四十多分钟,还经常得是姥姥满家追着喂。

    有一次读到王老师的育儿博客上关于孩子吃饭问题的文章,写得很好。就读给孩子听,告诉她,以后就这样了,再不吃饭就饿着,下一顿再吃。不吃饭是你自己的事,饿的是你自己的肚子,反正又不饿着妈妈的肚子。很是立杆见影,刚读完博客,当天中午就自己吃饭了,还吃得很好。

    我这个当妈妈的刚得意一会儿,新的问题又出来了。下一顿马上没这么乖了。何况她要不吃真饿着的话,即使我这个当妈的能忍住,姥姥可忍不住要心疼孩子。

    今天早上决定采取新战略。

    “宝宝,你先别吃饭啊,给妈妈留着。饭饭要是都被你吃到肚子里妈妈就找不到了。妈妈还没吃饱呢。”

    “宝宝,等等妈妈哈,妈妈洗个手马上回来吃你的饭饭。给妈妈多留点哈。”

    她大口大口地吃饭,哈哈,心中窃喜。“宝宝,别都吃了哈,妈妈还要吃呢。”

    几分钟的时间,饭就吃完了。呵呵,很有成就感。

     

     

     

  • the scene that I gave birth to my little daughter

    2007-12-06

     英语作业,难忘的情景,我写了分娩的过程。这周作业发下来,Dr. Jimmie 的评价是语言和语法很差
    :(, 但很有表现力。他印象深刻:)。在班上还发了半天感慨,说女人很伟大之类,呵呵。

    Dr.Jimmie课后还特意问我,分娩时的疼是什么样的,是“象针扎一样,还是象被切开的感觉”。我告诉他那种疼很难形容,即使用中文我也描述不出,又想了想,对他说,或许是“tear”的感觉吧,撕裂之疼。人可能真是很健忘的,时间过去好象没多久,那种疼痛似乎已记不起了。但那时发生的所有事情,都历历在目。

    分娩是在团结湖的北京新妇产,大夫和护士都很好。生产时一直抓着LG的胳膊,他隔段时间就往我嘴里塞块巧克力,挺管用的,虽然有时我正在用力时口中被塞巧克力很恼火,呵呵。

    虽然E文很差,还是贴在这里,以资纪念吧。

    或者有E文好的说不定帮我改改文章哈:)

    I will never forget the scene when I gave birth to my little daughter in the hospital.I lay  on the obstetric delivery bed, having a clear awareness of the sharp pain on my stomach. The pain occurred, steepened, and suddenly subsided. After a short while,the pain came again. The pain came and went just like tide on and tide down,again and again. Every time the pain came, I thought I couldn’t bear it. But I could do nothing helpful except clutching at the arm of my husband who stood beside my bed.I heard the doctor and the nurses tell me to hold on, to breathe deeply, and to relax with the rhythm of the pain. There was a TV set in the room. At that time a TV program amed  ‘Huanzhu Gege’ was broadcasting. At the intervals when the pain calmed down I could hear something from the TV. But then another tide of pain came and I could only feel the pain,forgetting all about the TV program.

      Suddenly something seemed wrong during the birth process. The baby was still in my stomach but her beat of heart disappeared! The doctor took some measures rapidly and the heart beat resumed. I heard the doctor talk to the nurses very quickly and seriously, asking them to prepare for forceps operation. The doctor said to my husbandthat the umbilical cord circled the baby’s neck and asked him to sign for the operation.I saw the chaos in the room, doctors and nurses walking quickly to and fro. I felt nervous and afraid. “Oh, my baby.”  I wouldn’t want a forceps operation. I worried thatthe baby may be hurt by the obstetric forceps. Now no doctor nor nurse stood beside me for instructions any more. They were all busy preparing for the operation. I kept holding on, aspirating , exhaling and exerting just as what they told me right now. “Oh, great! The baby’s head comes out! Hold on and continue! ” A nurse cried with pleasantly surprise.Her announcement drew the doctor and nurses came back to me. After a while I heard a sound baby’s cry. Oh, my god. My dear baby eventually came out without a forceps operation.

  • 闺女2岁9个月了

    2007-12-04

    2岁9个月了,我的宝贝闺女。这么多日日夜夜过去了。妈妈也没有写下一篇妈妈日记:(

    妈妈决定零零星星给你留下点文字,在这个空间里。

    希望这些文字能伴随你成长的岁月。若干年后,你长成大姑娘了,结婚了,生子了,这些文字还能帮你忆起童年的点点滴滴,见证妈妈和你一起成长的足迹。

    当了妈妈后,特别能理解老人为什么着急催着孩子结婚着急抱孙子的心情了。或许有一天我也会催你啊,等你自己也当了妈妈后就能理解了:)

  • 妈妈永远爱你

    2007-12-04

    给宝宝讲小熊阿力的故事,“妈妈永远爱你啊”

    走在路上,宝宝问“妈妈,是不是我听话你就喜欢我呀?”

    我说,“你是妈妈的宝宝啊。你哭妈妈也喜欢你,你笑妈妈也喜欢你;你听话妈妈也喜欢你,你不听话妈妈也喜欢你。。。。。。。你喜欢听话还是不听话呀?”

    “妈妈,我喜欢不听话!”555555555,但愿以后不要太难管才好:(

  • 高跟鞋 与高跟裤子

    2007-12-04

    “妈妈,你穿的什么鞋子呀?”

    “妈妈穿的高跟鞋呀。”

    “妈妈,我穿的高跟裤子”:)

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